“Something old, something new, something borrowed and something blue…” Wedding traditions can sometimes feel as old as the concept of marriage itself, and for the modern couple, these traditions just won’t do! We love tradition here at Pure Luxe Bride, but we understand that your wedding day must be perfectly suited to you. Below, we’ve compiled some of the wedding traditions we don’t think you and your hubby have to follow!
One of the oldest wedding traditions in existence is not seeing each other before the ceremony. It is also the tradition that has since been the most modernized. Nowadays, what the industry calls a “first look” is not only popular, but utilized more frequently than not. A “first look” is an intimate time when the bride and groom see each other right before the ceremony, coordinated by the photographer and the planner. With just the photographer standing by to capture the special moment, the “first look” is a chance for the bride and groom to see each other, calm their nerves and exchange their last words and kisses as an unwed couple. It’s also a time for the photographer to capture potentially more creative and better photos, without being rushed.
Traditionally performed after the cake cutting, the groom will remove and throw the garter to the unmarried gentlemen, and the bride tosses her bouquet to the unmarried ladies. Whoever catches these items will be the next to wed! While it remains a fun tradition, the bouquet and garter tosses aren’t totally necessary. If you and your hubby would rather keep your guests on the dance floor after the cake is cut, or you don’t want to draw attention to those guests that are still single – skip this tradition! Don’t worry – you’re not missing out and you’ll be just as happy dancing the night away.
So there’s your sister (she’s your Maid of Honor), your three roommates from college and the two girls from work… but oh! You can’t forget about your cousins and it’d be nice to put the Best Man’s girlfriend on the altar. Hmm and even though you wish you didn’t have to keep your future sister-in-law up there… wait! It’s a common wedding tradition to have a huge bridal party with everyone and their mother (literally) included. Why not break tradition and just have a Maid of Honor and a Best Man standing by your sides? Keep your bridal party (and inherently your budget) small!
It would be wonderful to get married in the church your parents were married in, but does it really suit you and your fiance’s wedding day vision? If not, consider a destination wedding! Location traditions are limiting to one of your hometowns. Why not start a tradition of your own, in a city you can call your own. Destination weddings also act as a mini vacation for guests so pick a place they’ll love (like Charleston)!